Reformed Woman: Mother, Teacher, and Catholic
I consider myself a woman of strong faith. A practicing Catholic. I pray. And I try to instill strong values in my two teenage daughters. As a single mother, working full time and having a long history of anxiety, OCD and eating disorders, my life—like many others—is filled with challenges as well as blessings.
When I met Reform founder Jackie during a presentation at Our Lady of Mercy Academy, I knew our Lord made our paths cross intentionally. And when I say that, I mean that I am confident that He put Jackie and I in the same room at the same time because He knew what I needed. Although I consider myself a woman of strong faith, I knew something was lacking. I had the desire to take it up a notch, strengthen my ability to pray, to be closer to God, and to be the best version of myself.
It is with confidence that I can share that REFORM was the right road to take, and that my life is completely RE-FORMED.
My lifestyle has changed for the better all around. I now carve out space every Sunday to observe the Sabbath. Despite the laundry and all the chores, I have forced myself to put everything aside to spend time in prayer, with family, and with enjoyment. My connection to Our Lord is stronger than it has ever been in my life. I am literally aware of Him walking by my side and supporting me all day long, whether at work or at play, day or night. REFORM has changed the way I thought about relationships and conflict. With God by my side, I am always confident that I am doing the best I can every day, and at every moment.
Physically, I feel the best I ever have. For the first time in a very long time, I no longer feel bloated. I’ve lost 14 pounds since June—not from dieting—but because I have made a complete lifestyle change. It is so liberating to finally say I am NOT on a diet! I am confident. I am elated to fit into clothes I haven’t been able to wear. I am confident and eager to participate in physical activity, either with my two teenage girls, with a friend, or a quiet walk alone.
At home, our meal times are relatively consistent. I practice Intermittent fasting and I offer it up to a family member. I am Gluten free, processed sugar free, and alcohol free with the exception of an occasional glass of wine with a meal. As a family we have enjoyed the introduction of new and different recipes. We sit down for meals and say a prayer of gratefulness beforehand. We eat with gusto, but make it distraction free. We enjoy meals in each other’s company and use it as an opportunity to talk about the day. Obedience has become a desire, instead of an unfortunate obligation. Our Dear Mary calls me to become more like her Son, and I am devoted to and welcome every one of her invitations.
As a family, we now unplug an hour before bedtime. I never imagined the results this would have. Having a consistent bedtime routine, I wake up with more energy to begin my day. Quiet time before the girls awake lends itself to prayer and quiet, free from distraction.
Additionally, I have finally learned to accept challenges as opportunities. Opportunities to grow, maybe change, find strength, and PRAY! I take ownership of my lifestyle now, and am not afraid to share my story for fear I will not be accepted.
I am forever grateful to Jackie and to REFORM. I pray more, play more, and eat healthier. I am more focused, grateful, and conscious of how blessed I am. I have an open heart and open dialogue with God. I have faith as well as patience. I am committed and disciplined. I do what I do with intention, and it is wholeheartedly and intrinsically rewarding.
—Donna Basile
Massapequa, New York